What Is Tantra?
Learn • Practice • Enjoy
At the Into The WIld Beltane Fire Festival Shivapriya and I experienced a Sacred Touch Ritual, in a yurt, with about 40 other people…
One of the most reliable ways to get a woman to experience gushing is to carry out a prolonged, tantric yoni massage on her vagina (and also her entire body) which will result in multiple orgasms for her. The technique to doing this involves long periods of raising your woman to a near orgasmic state and then backing off so that she rides the waves of ecstasy but does not actually come.
Whilst a clitoral orgasm is definitely up there in terms of enjoyment and what a lot of women regularly do, it’s only one of EIGHT different types of female orgasm that exist. Eight!
Often when men masturbate it’s a race to the finish line for an ejaculatory orgasm. But with tantric masturabation, one can learn to use energy to experience pleasure greater than anything experienced before - and also learn how to use skills during intercourse for prolonged experience and pleasure.
Kegels are often discussed in relation to women’s sexual health: by strengthening the pelvic floor, women keep their vaginas nice and tight, which enhances sexual pleasure. But wait… there’s major benefits for men doing kegels as well.
Here’s a selection of the topics we’re going to be covering in the next few months as we grow our selection of articles for advice, learning and pleasure.
To coincide with the launch of the website where we will post our blogs, thoughts and findings about tantra and tantric sex, we have also created a Facebook group where we hope to build a community and have active discussions.
As I began my journey into tantra, and tantric sex, I wasn’t really sure what to expect. Was there some mystical mantra I had to chant (answer: no, at least not yet!). Was there some weird technique or position I would have to master whilst throwing my back out? No, not that either.
There is a lot of information out there on the internet, but most of it tends to be inadequate, missing the point or brazenly trying to sell ‘services’ such as tantric massage. It is hard to come by information about tantra, which is no surprise given its origins as a mystical practice, it’s holy texts written in code, so as to only be deciphered by the initiated.
I’d always been interested in spiritual things. I’d never really known where to look, but it was always on the edge of my mind, a thing I felt I wanted to look at some day and find out about. As a teenager, I’d been entranced by the idea of an after-life. I’d read books and books about astrology, and signs, and ghosts, and ‘metaphysics’ - none of which I can really remember any more. A never ending itch I couldn’t scratch and didn’t know how to even if I could locate it.